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99-Word Stories by ,
Creative Learning Director of
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© 2013 Brian Remer
Updated Apr. 2013


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July 2012

Turn Right to Go Left
Busy intersections are few in rural Vermont, but during tourist season you can wait a long time to make a left turn onto a crowded thoroughfare. Recently I just could not find a break in the traffic flowing east that coincided with the traffic flowing west.

Then an idea! Switching signals, I turned right into the flow. Less than a tenth of a mile later, I turned left into a parking lot and took another right joining the traffic in the direction of my original intent.

Got something difficult to do? Try the opposite!

 

You can build upon the theme of this 99-Word Story by using some of the following questions for your own reflection or to spark a discssion within your team or organization.

 

There are many ways to understand this story as the discussion questions suggest. If you or your group would like to compare or contrast your interpretation with an outside viewpoint, consider this analysis:

"Steady as she goes."
"Stay the course."
"Don't change horses midstream."

There is plenty of advice about keeping things the same - and sometimes that's a good thing. When a technique or process has worked well in the past, why change it? Everyone is comfortable, knows their role, and can complete their responsibilities with few surprises and little risk. If the outcome is satisfactory and affordable, why change? Problem is, even a perfect system will stay synchronized for only so long. Eventually, adjustments will need to be made, unexpected events will intervene, or catastrophe will need to be averted.

When that happens, our first reaction is to jump in, push back, meet force with force. Suddenly we find ourselves standing on slippery rocks struggling up stream against the current. Any change effort means fighting inertia; steering against the prevailing wisdom. The effort may be effective but it's hard work, it's tiring, and it's costly in terms of both resources and relationships.

Unfortunately, sometimes we are so intent on one course of action or a single outcome we miss other opportunities to achieve the same result. If we have not reached our goal after reasonable effort, we must ask, "At what point does tenacity turn into stubbornness?"

When you are at that tipping point, here are ways doing the opposite might help:

Most of the time, constrained by circumstances, a quick reaction is the best we can manage in tough situations. An "opposite" approach never even comes to mind. And in many instances this may be enough.

But if we can train ourselves to the possible presence of a creative opposite, with practice we can begin to see difficulties as real opportunities.

 

Readers Respond to this issue
Your intro was "Going with the flow in the opposite direction." It's a good concept regarding conventional wisdom. The little I know about Aikido offers the same tactic of "going with the flow". An attacker is falling into and by his or her own force. This Martial Art is a sane way of dealing with forces. while trying to avoid injury to all concerned. Thanks and peace, -- James

Brian: I read your July 99-Word Story and I wonder if you got your directions wrong? If you take left into a parking lot then a right you'd be heading in the same direction. I would recommend that you take a left out of the parking lot to change directions. Eventually you need to take a left to go left. See red arrow. Just my thoughts. -- Eunice

Brian's Reply:
Eunice, Thanks for your observation and diagram to explain it! I believe you are correct from an aerial point of view as you have drawn. However, from the viewpoint of the driver (as I experienced it) one could be facing north and wanting to go west (left). Turning east (right) then north (left) into a parking lot you can turn around (a step I left out of the story!). Now facing south you can turn west (right) which is the desired direction.

So you are right, to go west, you do eventually have to turn west but that can be either a right or left turn depending on whether you are facing north or south.

I like your thought because it's a reminder that our perspective on change (whether on the ground or from the 30,000 foot level) has a huge impact on the things we do to make change happen! Thanks!

 

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